In most cases, the reason why you might be attracting the wrong kind of male is probably because of the photo that you have uploaded for your online dating profile.
Research has shown that the reason why most men get the wrong message is because women upload pictures of themselves that are slightly too revealing in terms of how they are posing, as well as how much skin they are showing in their photos.

So, how do you go about looking sexy and attractive while at the same time attracting the right kind of man?

The best way to do this is by keeping the photo shots natural. In other words, show pictures of yourself in environments that are not sensual or seductive in any way. Great natural shots could be of you having a BBQ with your friends, or playing some kind of sport. By showing your potential dating partners these type of natural settings, you will be able to attract the type of man that is looking for something a little more romantic and long-term instead of those that have difficulty in controlling their hormones.

However, as beneficial as this medium can be, you have to be cautious and smart in the way you go about doing things in the online dating world. Not only will this ensure your safety, it will also help you to get the most accurate response so that you can catch the right dating partner.

Let us take a look at a few tips that you can use in order to get the best experience out of online dating;

Always ask yourself the following questions before writing your profile:

• What makes you unique and special compared to everyone else?
• What do you feel has made a great impact in the way you have decided to live your life. In other words, has there been anything during your life history that has influenced your overall life goal decisions?
• What are you sincerely looking for in a relationship? Be truthful to yourself with this question. By doing so, you will prevent any type of misunderstanding with your potential dating partner in the future.
• What powerful personal characteristics do you possess? In other words, do you see yourself as someone that has great integrity, compassion, persistence, an amazing sense of humor etc.?
• What is the most powerful reason that you are able to give somebody in order for them to take an interest in you?

Here are a few extra tips that you can use to get a better response rate as well as ensure your overall safety online:

• Always upload a picture of yourself. By doing this, you will get a much higher response rate than those that have no picture at all.
• Don’t be afraid to smile in your photos. For someone to be attracted to you, they need to feel that they see a warm and open person in front of them. Smiling is a great way of portraying this.
• Show sincerity in your pictures. A great way to do this is by never wearing sunglasses or a hat. This will allow the potential dating partner to see you for exactly who you are.
• Always have a great headline. Make sure that it’s catchy and unforgettable.
• Never exchange confidential information in your e-mail exchanges.
• Never meet anyone in person until you’ve actually spoken to them on the telephone as well as  given yourself enough time to make the best judgment possible. If someone really has a genuine interest in you, they will be patient and will respect your feelings of wanting to be safe.
• Always create a separate e-mail account for your online dating activities. This allows you to control things better without worrying about privacy.
• Always use a post office box instead of your full home address when registering in a dating site.
• Never use your home telephone number if the dating site requires one. Instead, rather use your cell phone number.
• Avoid giving your full name when chatting or using e-mail. Instead, only give your first name.

By keeping these few tips in mind, you will ensure yourself the safety you need to be able to date online in the most enjoyable environment possible.